Which pigeon-hole would you prefer calling your forever home?
OMG; is it imitating an army barrack?
Would you rather maintain your identity in a humanized community that places people before investor profits or cars (which may rarely be used 2 or 3 hours a week in your retirement)?
Get closer to nature; have frequent & pleasant collisions with your neighbors, smell more flowers, grow veggies, sip some tea (or beer/wine if that is your cup). Make lasting memories @ the common house, in the courtyard garden, on your porch, @ mailboxes, bike/walking trails, on tree swings etc.
Outcast the cars like you leave your shoes @ the door; the short walk home would be good for you! You don't have to be an automobile parasite sleeping with your car (attached garages). Instead why not share chauffeur driven limo with your buddies, you deserve it or ride an UBER-cab!
You can forget about gas price hikes, insurance, maintenance or the redundant greyscape infrastructure (access roads, driveways, garages, parking); if you snip the umbilical cord.
Downsize your personal space (where you just go to sleep or for some intentional quiet time) & maximize the common social areas where you laugh away your loneliness ordepression.